- Are you a support paying father who cares about his children only to suffer the unfortunate consequences of "her" alienation of you from these young victims for the purposes of her own financial gain because our laws allow it?
- Have you been through the Canadian Family Court System and been done over like so many other fathers who are willing,able and want to do more than just pay support?
- Do you pay support religiously and are still being denied access to your children or have been a victim of "HAP"?
- Do your kids seem to be despondent towards you or your "significant other" when they come to visit even though they only see you weekly or bi-weekly? (refer to HAP above)
- Does your ex-wife defraud the Tax system and collect "Spousal" in addition to child support only to garner more of your "non- custodial parent" income?
- If you have answered yes to any of these questions, then you should browse through this site. This site is for those of us who feel the need to expose the mothers who are taking advantage of the "Canadian Family Law System"
These men have to pay half or nearly half of their earnings to the FRO for the mothers of their children. Not all mothers are like my ex-wife. Like her, the ones who are doing it are doing it because the Canadian Family Court System of Law allows them to. These mothers do this and get away with it because they "CAN."
If you are a victim of The Canadian Court of Family Law, let me tell you my story and let's see if we have something in common.
I have page upon page of day-to-day testimony documented on the ill effects of HAP and Strategic Estrangement and money-grabbing by my ex and could write a book on it. However, I will give you only the most recent incident involving her love of the almighty buck! (Not her NEED for it)
When your Ex-Wife has increased HER lifestyle and goes to the cottage on the weekends, even though she worked every weekend while you were together (because we needed the money), and the Kids' needs are taken care of (with your support), there is no reason you should have to pay spousal support.
I shopped at yard sales and garage sales (and was made fun of by my friends for doing so) to furnish an apartment to have furniture for when the kids came to visit because I was paying half the credit card debt incurred while I was married - by the way - I didn't hold a credit card. I also paid 75% of extraordinary expenses because she claimed to make very little money (she works for herself for cash).
Just as an example, I paid support for a son who was 18 and working full time (2 jobs). I asked his mother numerous times to have him dropped from the support payments. She would laugh and ask me "What's your problem?" This went on for two years and I overpaid by approximately $16,000.00. I finally had to take her to court to have him taken off my overall amount. Just before going to court her lawyer advised that there "Wasn't an issue" getting the amount adjusted. Rather nonchalant, I thought, after my repeated attempts to get the amount dropped - through letters to her lawyer (and her), the FRO and the courts.
